As you may know I visited Chanty Lang-Vermaas a week ago. On the surface we were two women with very similiar interest and histories. We both had been involved in acting, both were business trainers, both had a love of life and passionate about making a difference. And we both very much love to laugh.

Coming away it was like I had sat down in my old favourite chair and breathed in joy. Philaeo type love they call it, the love of one for a friend or a familiar object.

What is so astounding to me is that until a week or two ago we didn’t even know each other existed. We were both out there “tweeting” away to our friends. Our tweet paths crossed and a conversation about roses spurred a desire to meet.

Who would have thought that out of that one visit we would have been able to share our joyful meeting with the world, organise for Women Can girls to go for a “Mama Mia” night up the hill with Chanty. It just shows me that there are always precious and valuable little pockets of friendship just waiting for us to find them.

Well here is a piece of music that I composed in memory of my visit to Chanty (@chantified on Twitter). Chantified

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .  

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written.” My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn’t fair,
 but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.


3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.


4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick.. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch
.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.


6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.


9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.


10. When it comes to chocolate,
 resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.


12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.


13. Don’t compare your life to others.
 You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret,
 you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.


16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.


17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful,
 beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you, really does make you stronger.


19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.


20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.


21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.


22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.


23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.


24. The most important sex organ is the brain.


25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.


26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words
 ‘In five years, will this matter?

27. Always choose life.


28. Forgive everyone, everything.


29. What other people think of you is none of your business.


30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.


31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.


32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.


33. Believe in miracles.


34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.


35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.


36.. Growing old beats the alternative – dying young.


37. Your children get only one childhood.


38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.


39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.


40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.


41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.


42. The best is yet to come.


43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.


44. Yield.


45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
 

I met with Geoff Quinsee and Lee Hancock this morning to finish off their blog site with them.  It was so exciting to see two men with a vision that was coming to pass and I was part of that whole process. 

I have to say that I love what I do…

Geoff and Lee are off on a trek, end to end, of the Bibbulmun Track.  It’s a 1000km journey and by no means an easy trip.  They will be traveling from Perth’s foothills to Albany in the South.  When they arrived at my home, they had just come from a training session at Surge where they’d had a bit of a butt kick regarding their food and training regimes.  For Geoff it was exactly what he expected but for Lee it was a bit of a shock to the system.  It will be interesting to see how their adventure goes forward.  I’m really looking forward to seeing the footage on TV.

Here is the banner I designed for their website…

bg_brandingI’m going to post some updates on their progress from time to time because I think these guys are really inspirational.  You don’t have to be a bloke to have an adventure, but to take on Western Australia bushland is no mean feat.

All the best guys!

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Ps Wilson with the Solich Family

Ps Wilson with the Solich Family

I met with Ps Wilson from Uganda again tonight.  It was a lovely time of sharing stories and hearing what God is up to in Uganda.

 

During our discussions, I made the decision to definitely go to Uganda in November and I believe Andrew will be coming with me as well.  We have much to offer and much to learn, so I believe the exchange of cultures will be significant and beneficial.

We talked about what Pastor Wilson is doing in Uganda with the women and the children.  He has a school of 43 children, mostly orphans or from poor families.  He explained the culture there and what we could expect from people.  We also talked about the micro business he has set up with the women, teaching them how to sew so that they can make money for their families.

As he spoke of the women and the sewing business, I immediately felt that I need to take sewing machines with me. Many of the machines used are the old foot pedal operated machines.  They reminded me of my grandmother who hated her new electric machine in comparison.  I couldn’t help wondering what a few new machines could do for families, as the old saying goes, “Give a man a fish and he will be back tomorrow for another but teach a man how to fish and he will have fish for life.”

I am excited that God would choose me for this mission.  I believe that we all have a purpose in life and mine has always been to serve God and humanity through the giftings that he has given me.  I cannot wait to work with the singers and musicians.  That will be my very great pleasure as I already know that these people can sing!

 This will be my Woman of Spirit Personal Challenge Quest for 2009 through Women Can International Inc.  I’m so excited as when I created the program for Women Can International Inc it was exactly with this in mind!

This video broke my heart and has fueled my passion to give of my talents to help the children and the mothers of Uganda:

  

 

Ps Wilson & his wife Joy

Ps Wilson & his wife Joy

Saw this video and it made me cry. What a miracle of life and determination on the part of one so small. Also, you could almost tangibly feel the love of the parents pouring into this child.






For my New Year’s Eve, I arranged a progressive dinner for some of the girls from Women Can International Inc. The night turned out to be the best New Year’s Eve I’ve ever had. We started out by spending time with three beautiful labradors down on Yanchep beach. While they were fetching stick, we sat and had our gorgeous picnic and I snapped off heaps of photos.

Then we went to a friend’s house and had a lovely meal, sitting out the back in the candlelight and discussing philosophy. It was such a precious time.

Then we sped off to another friend’s house, determined to be in her spa with a glass of champagne and a slice of the most goregous cheese cake I’ve ever tasted. It was just a slice of heaven. This stint lasted three hours and eventually we decided we should shelve our discussions and make our way home.

It was then that we decided to upload the photos onto one of the girls computers to see what they looked like. Apart from capturing the most gorgeous beach shots, we were very surprised to see that on about 10 of the shots there were light orbs. These are simply unexplainable. We didn’t see them at the beach. It couldn’t have been something on the lens as they are not in the same position. There is even a motion blur on one of them, indicating to me it was something moving. The only explanation I can find for them is that they are spiritual beings.

Take a look and tell me what you think.

They were on the viewer in the camera and initially I thought perhaps they were a tennis ball we were throwing, but then I saw there were so many of them and in different places.

For example, the sun was setting so it’s not the sun on the horizon. There was a moon and a star above it but they were quite high up in the sky. There just simply is no other explanation for them.

I’d love it if someone else could come up with a plausible explanation, so please post your comments.

I guess this little mystery adds something special to what was a wonderfully, warm and thoroughly enjoyable evening with girlfriends.

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